Dear Duta Didi,
I’m a teetotaller and my father in law keeps offering me whiskey. It’s really awkward to say ‘no’, so I end up drinking it and making a fool of myself. Yesterday I drank so much that I vomited on their carpet. I can’t face them.
Dear Johnny W., What are you thinking? There’s no shame in being yourself! Stand up for your beliefs - it’s worth an uncomfortable moment. When you pretend to be somebody else, bad things happen, like vomiting on your in-law’s floor!
On the bright side, your father in law will think twice before offering you any alcoholic beverages.